Monday, 18 November 2013

Thats when I realized


Today I complete the third month of my college life. It’s been total fun till now. Making friends, a lot of them, roaming around the city and above all having total freedom are all so wonderful. 

Yesterday was one of the most memorable days of the college. The whole afternoon was spent in celebrating the birthday party of one of the batch mates. We went to Adventure Park and had lots of fun with rides and games and a lot of clicks. The afternoon was so filled with fun and frolic that we even forgot to have our lunch.


We came back at evening by 5 pm. I was too tired to do anything so went and had a good nap of two hours. It feels good to sleep at any time of day and you can stay awake longer at nights.

8 o’clock, about whole of the college could be seen at mess or roaming around it. The number of people standing outside is much more than the number of people sitting inside which clearly says just one thing, one need to eat outside today.

I along with my friend Raj went out to try the restaurant nearby. The food was great and a vegetarian like me hardly finds food with a good taste. The day had been super awesome till now and only thing that could be better than this was a SRK movie. The latest had released two days ago so we bought two tickets for it and luckily got it in the heavy bookings for the last show. After spending an hour, window shopping at the mall we were able to spend the gap of idleness.

The movie had SRK so it couldn't have a flaw. I just loved it. It was too late to go back to the hostel so we planned to spend the night at his flat. This was going to be my fourth night out which was more than expected with just the beginning of the college. His 2 bhk flat was nearby and made me envy him so much. Many of my friends opted for living in flat/PG instead of hostel. I always preferred staying at a flat but my parent felt me to keep at hostel. I have spent a gala time at 3 of my friend’s flat and every time I get so jealous of them.

His flat was well furnished unlike my other friends and the thing I liked the most was that he had both the fridge and a TV. We took out two bottles of beer from it and had a little chat. The chat went from normal college talks to our childhood tales and our old friends. We kept on talking and suddenly he realized that it has been sunrise. Another night had been spent sleepless so I just asked him to drop me to hostel on his bike so I could get atleast a good 8 hour sleep, missing all my classes.

Its 2 p.m and I am awake now. I went to the bathroom to brush my teeth. I could see people looking at me with not a good sight and I knew that they were jealous of my coolness. I got ready and went out to meet my gang of Raj, Rahul & Amrit. While waiting for them I overheard some of my colleagues.

They were saying me to be characterless. I could not understand why. My friends and I, were all doing the same things but only I was the only one made the character less in all of them.

That’s when I realized that I was a girl.


17 comments:

  1. Awww...poor girl :( Our double-standard society :(

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    1. We may blame the society for everything but we forget that we are a part of it. Sadly more than half of us would have thought the same as her colleagues.

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    1. i know its nice, because truth n especially bitter truth is amazing and at the same time piercing to hear...

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  3. Stud ending karne laga hai ladka ekdum :P

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    1. Hope this ends bring a new start :D

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  5. an excellent style of writing, loved the way the story unfolds:)

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    1. i was scared if the people will read till the end or not..... Thts the biggest flaw in it....

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  6. its so good .... it feels good to know that a guy has succeeded in understanding that girls also have a life similar to them.... :)

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    1. I was too late in understanding it but its better late than never...

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  7. Hey, nice blog
    i have nominated your blog for the liebster blogger award

    http://jaynthbusi.blogspot.in/2013/11/liebster-d.html

    Congrats :) happy blogging

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    1. Hey, its nice to hear something like this but could you give me some more details about the liebster award.... I have heard about it for the first time.... what is it????

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    2. it's given for the newbie bloggers.. visit that above link for details :) btw congrats :)

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    3. thanx for sharing it with me

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  8. This time, I won't applaud you as always. This time, I won't even say whether you have written good or bad. I would only like to point out that its the way of our insecure, narrow-minded society(me and you and even the girls included) and its completely wrong in every sense. It needs to be reformed, restructured, revamped, and in whatever re's people may understand, they need to rethink about their illogical views, shred the age-old biased thinking and work together towards a better and healthy change . . .

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    1. The change to be brought is not so easy to undestand. Its not just this post which can bring it.... but it can always create the spark....

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